Reasons to be happy (or why is it so important for a woman to be positive)...

It’s not a secret that men are attracted to positive women. They are charmed by the women who smile, who are not afraid to laugh; men are simply fascinated by the women who laugh often and do it naturally. Women, who accept the world as it is with all its’ pros and cons; women, who are able to feel and express their happiness without burdening themselves and all the people around them with unnecessary problems; women, whose emotions men can understand easily. Every man would find women of this kind very appealing; every man would prefer to be next to a woman like this.

What is it then, “positive attitude”? You can compare it with the ray of the sun light. The sun ray brings light and warmth. Imagine, you live in the cellar without the windows or a room with no light... How drastic that would be! Think of negative attitude as of some sort of radiation. Radiation damages hair, body organs, it triggers off different illnesses, even death. People prefer to avoid negative individuals, because they pose danger to their happy life styles.

Where does the positive attitude result from? One can say it comes out of happiness. Happiness has its own constituents. Here are some of them:

1.Ability to estrange yourself from problems and conflicts; ability to relax and feel comfortable

2. Self-confidence, thinking of yourself as of being successful

3. Feeling of being accepted, needed; knowing that you can give/share something to/with this world

4.Such thoughts as:

a) thoughts about pleasant, happy events

b) thoughts about certain person or certain type of activity

c) thoughts about certain activities of other people

d) thoughts about your abilities, your success

e) thoughts about future wellbeing

f) thoughts about the fact that other people accept and need you, and that you can give something to people in return

5. Spending more time doing what you like doing (hobby)

6.Successful solutions/outcomes of your activity

7. Activities, carried out together with a certain person

8. Fulfilling your duties and ambitions

9. Stimulating and exciting type of activity...

Of course, this list can be endless, but this is not the case. The heart of the matter is in asking yourself a question: “Are there reasons in your life to be happy, feel positive about yourself and about all that surrounds you?” If not - find those reasons. At the end of the day, you are the one who wants and deserves to live a brighter, lighter, more interesting life...